Gently Mended

You already know why it hurts. So why do you keep living it?

14 guided books and journals to finally work through the mother wound, the father wound, anxious love and the voice that says you’re not enough. Not to read. To work in, 15 minutes at a time.

Reparenting My Inner Child

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Does this sound like you?

  • You’re the one everyone calls, and nobody checks on.
  • A short reply from your mother can ruin your Sunday.
  • You reread your texts, then check if they’ve been seen.
  • At 3 a.m. your mind replays every conversation.
  • You keep falling for people who are hard to reach.
  • You’ve read the posts, done the podcasts, and still feel the same.

None of this means you’re broken. It’s what a little girl figured out to feel safe and loved. You already understand it. Now it’s time to work through it, one page at a time.

With Gently Mended, you’ll finally:

  • Understand where your reactions really come from.
  • Make peace with your mother and father story.
  • Calm the anxious alarm when someone pulls away.
  • Say no without the guilt hangover.
  • Stop earning your place and start feeling enough.
  • Break the pattern you keep repeating.
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This is what “guided” really means.

No walls of theory. Every chapter follows the same gentle rhythm, so you always know what to do next.

  • Every chapter opens with a real-life scene you’ll recognize.
    1 · A storyEvery chapter opens with a real-life scene you’ll recognize.
  • What to do in the moment, with the exact words to say.
    2 · When it hitsWhat to do in the moment, with the exact words to say.
  • Guided pages you fill in on your phone or by hand.
    3 · Your turnGuided pages you fill in on your phone or by hand.
  • Your result tells you which book and page to open tonight.
    Bonus quizYour result tells you which book and page to open tonight.
  • The exact exercise for each day, so you never feel lost.
    30-day pathThe exact exercise for each day, so you never feel lost.
  • 52 cards for the hardest moments, on your phone.
    SOS cards52 cards for the hardest moments, on your phone.

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  • 731

    guided pages

  • 3,149

    spaces to write

  • 120

    “When it hits” plans

  • 15 min

    a day is enough

Not books to read. Books to work in.

One book for every wound.

  • Cover of Healing the Mother Wound
    Mother

    Healing the Mother Wound

    Understand what you didn't get as a daughter, and learn to give it to yourself now

    For the woman who still feels seven years old after a call with her mom, and is tired of waiting for an apology.

    Where to start: Start with chapter 1, "The mother you had." 15 minutes tonight.

    49 pages16 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1The mother you had
    2. 2What a little girl concludes
    3. 3The echoes
    4. 4Three generations
    5. 5Grieving the mother you didn't have
    6. 6Becoming the mother you needed
    7. 7The relationship now
    8. 8The letter you don't have to send
    9. 9The woman you're becoming

    Real pages from this book

    Healing the Mother Wound, inside page 1
    A story
    Healing the Mother Wound, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Healing the Mother Wound, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Healing the Father Wound
    Father

    Healing the Father Wound

    Understand the father you had, and stop waiting for what he couldn’t give

    For the girl who waited on the front steps, and the woman who still chases people who are hard to reach.

    Where to start: Start with chapter 1, "The father you had."

    51 pages19 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1The father you had
    2. 2What a girl learns from her father
    3. 3The people I choose
    4. 4Proving I'm worth it
    5. 5When the house held its breath
    6. 6Grieving the father you needed
    7. 7The relationship now
    8. 8The words you needed to hear
    9. 9The woman who stopped waiting

    Real pages from this book

    Healing the Father Wound, inside page 1
    A story
    Healing the Father Wound, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Healing the Father Wound, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Reparenting My Inner Child
    Inner child

    Reparenting My Inner Child

    Give the girl you were the care she needed, in small, steady ways

    Meet the girl you were at five, ten and fifteen, and become the grown-up she was waiting for.

    Where to start: One small ritual a day. Begin with "The girl at five, ten and fifteen."

    50 pages19 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1What reparenting really is
    2. 2The girl at five, ten and fifteen
    3. 3Conversations on paper
    4. 4The voice of your inner parent
    5. 5Soothing her in the moment
    6. 6Letting her play
    7. 7Protecting her when it's hard
    8. 8Small rituals, every day
    9. 9She's not alone anymore

    Real pages from this book

    Reparenting My Inner Child, inside page 1
    A story
    Reparenting My Inner Child, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Reparenting My Inner Child, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of My Inner Child & Attachment
    Attachment

    My Inner Child & Attachment

    Understand why you love the way you do, and learn to feel safe in closeness

    Why a late reply feels like an emergency, and how to become a safe place for yourself.

    Where to start: Start with "The question every child asks."

    54 pages20 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1The question every child asks
    2. 2The girl who is still listening
    3. 3The alarm that won't switch off
    4. 4The door I keep half-closed
    5. 5Come close, go away
    6. 6Not only in love: marriage and friendship
    7. 7Security can be earned
    8. 8Asking instead of protesting
    9. 9The girl at the window comes inside

    Real pages from this book

    My Inner Child & Attachment, inside page 1
    A story
    My Inner Child & Attachment, inside page 2
    When it hits
    My Inner Child & Attachment, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Gentle with My Anxiety
    Anxiety

    Gentle with My Anxiety

    Understand your racing mind and calm your body, without shame or fighting yourself

    For the woman who is always bracing: the 3 a.m. mind, the overthinking loop and a toolkit that works in the moment.

    Where to start: Read chapter 6, "Calming the body first," before you need it.

    49 pages19 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1An alarm that means well
    2. 2The overthinking loop
    3. 3The 3 a.m. mind
    4. 4Living in what if
    5. 5Anxiety in love and friendship
    6. 6Calming the body first
    7. 7Talking back to the worry
    8. 8My anxiety plan
    9. 9Gentle, not fearless

    Real pages from this book

    Gentle with My Anxiety, inside page 1
    A story
    Gentle with My Anxiety, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Gentle with My Anxiety, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Growing My Self-Worth
    Self-worth

    Growing My Self-Worth

    Stop earning your place and start believing you deserve it, at home, at work and in love

    For the one who over-explains, over-gives and still feels like she has to earn her seat at the table.

    Where to start: Begin with chapter 2, "The voice in my head."

    54 pages20 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1Worth is not a performance
    2. 2The voice in my head
    3. 3Scrolling past myself
    4. 4Making peace with the mirror
    5. 5Just say thank you
    6. 6Asking for more
    7. 7Worthy in love
    8. 8My evidence file
    9. 9Worth that stays

    Real pages from this book

    Growing My Self-Worth, inside page 1
    A story
    Growing My Self-Worth, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Growing My Self-Worth, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Untangling My Patterns
    Patterns

    Untangling My Patterns

    See the loops that keep repeating, rewrite the beliefs behind them, and break one for good

    Same Sunday, different year. Catch the loop, find the belief underneath and write a new script.

    Where to start: Start with chapter 1, "Why patterns repeat."

    53 pages20 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1Why patterns repeat
    2. 2The beliefs underneath
    3. 3The yes that costs too much
    4. 4Never quite good enough
    5. 5The one who holds it all
    6. 6Pulling the brake when life gets good
    7. 7New beliefs I can actually believe
    8. 8One pattern, thirty days
    9. 9The woman who chooses

    Real pages from this book

    Untangling My Patterns, inside page 1
    A story
    Untangling My Patterns, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Untangling My Patterns, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Back to My Roots
    Roots

    Back to My Roots

    Map your life story, your family and the girl you were, and finally see where it hurts

    The first step of the path: your timeline, your family map and the role you learned to play.

    Where to start: Start here if you want to do the path in order.

    56 pages19 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1The timeline of my life
    2. 2Who was who
    3. 3The house rules
    4. 4The girl before she adapted
    5. 5The suitcase I was handed
    6. 6The roots that hold me
    7. 7My map of where it hurts
    8. 8My story, in my own words
    9. 9Standing on my own ground

    Real pages from this book

    Back to My Roots, inside page 1
    A story
    Back to My Roots, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Back to My Roots, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Naming My Wounds
    Wounds

    Naming My Wounds

    Recognize the five old wounds behind your strongest reactions, and learn to tend each one

    Rejection, abandonment, humiliation, betrayal, injustice: put a name to what hurts so you can tend it.

    Where to start: Use it with the free quiz to find your main wound.

    49 pages18 “Your turn” pages7 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1The bruise under the skin
    2. 2Rejection: "I'm not wanted"
    3. 3Abandonment: "People leave"
    4. 4Shame: "Something is wrong with me"
    5. 5Betrayal: "I can't trust"
    6. 6Unfairness: "I have to earn it"
    7. 7My wound profile
    8. 8Tending a wound instead of pressing it
    9. 9A wound with a name

    Real pages from this book

    Naming My Wounds, inside page 1
    A story
    Naming My Wounds, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Naming My Wounds, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of 21-Day Self-Love Challenge
    Self-love

    21-Day Self-Love Challenge

    Three weeks of small daily acts that teach you to treat yourself with real kindness

    One small act, one question and one page a day for 21 days.

    Where to start: One day per day. Missed one? Just continue.

    49 pages27 “Your turn” pages21 daily acts

    What’s inside

    1. 1Week 1 · Notice: You can't change what you can't see
    2. 2Week 2 · Nurture: You can't hate yourself into healing
    3. 3Week 3 · Choose yourself: Love is something you do
    4. 421 daily pages: one small act, one question
    5. 5Check-ins on days 7, 14 and 21

    Real pages from this book

    21-Day Self-Love Challenge, inside page 1
    Day 1
    21-Day Self-Love Challenge, inside page 2
    Day 3
    21-Day Self-Love Challenge, inside page 3
    Day 5
  • Cover of Self-Love Diary
    Diary

    Self-Love Diary

    Eight guided weeks of writing your way back to a kinder voice inside

    For the girl who kept it all inside: guided writing to hear yourself again.

    Where to start: Ten minutes before bed, a few times a week.

    56 pages25 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1The page that listens
    2. 2When you have nothing to say
    3. 3The voice you write in
    4. 4Weeks one & two: arriving and feeling
    5. 5Weeks three & four: needing and resting
    6. 6Weeks five & six: receiving and speaking up
    7. 7Weeks seven & eight: forgiving and choosing
    8. 8The prompt bank
    9. 9The woman on these pages

    Real pages from this book

    Self-Love Diary, inside page 1
    A story
    Self-Love Diary, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Self-Love Diary, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Becoming the New Me
    New me

    Becoming the New Me

    Discover who you are after healing, and build a life that finally fits her

    Retire old roles, keep small promises and build a 90-day plan for the woman you are becoming.

    Where to start: Best after the first stages of the path.

    54 pages23 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1The roles I'm retiring
    2. 2What I actually value
    3. 3Letters from my future self
    4. 4Small promises, kept
    5. 5Boundaries for the new life
    6. 6When they liked the old you
    7. 7The days you slip back
    8. 8My 90-day plan
    9. 9She was you all along

    Real pages from this book

    Becoming the New Me, inside page 1
    A story
    Becoming the New Me, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Becoming the New Me, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Dates with Myself
    Me time

    Dates with Myself

    24 solo dates to fall in love with your own company, without the awkwardness

    From breakfast for a guest to a table for one: 24 dates with time, cost and every detail planned.

    Where to start: Pick one date this week and book it like an appointment.

    53 pages22 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1Alone is not the same as lonely
    2. 2The fear of being seen alone
    3. 3How to date yourself
    4. 4Dates at home
    5. 5Dates out in the world
    6. 6Little adventures
    7. 7Dates for the soul
    8. 8Making it a ritual
    9. 9The best company I keep

    Real pages from this book

    Dates with Myself, inside page 1
    A story
    Dates with Myself, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Dates with Myself, inside page 3
    Your turn
  • Cover of Everyday Wellbeing Rituals
    Daily rituals

    Everyday Wellbeing Rituals

    Small daily practices that keep your healing alive on ordinary days, not just good ones

    The first ten minutes, closing the day, rest you don’t have to earn and a ritual for hard days.

    Where to start: Choose one morning and one evening ritual to start.

    54 pages20 “Your turn” pages8 “When it hits” plans

    What’s inside

    1. 1Why small things hold
    2. 2The first ten minutes
    3. 3Closing the day
    4. 4Coming home to your body
    5. 5Rest you don't have to earn
    6. 6Checking in with your heart
    7. 7Months, seasons and dates that ache
    8. 8The ritual for hard days
    9. 9Your personal ritual plan
    10. 10The path you walked

    Real pages from this book

    Everyday Wellbeing Rituals, inside page 1
    A story
    Everyday Wellbeing Rituals, inside page 2
    When it hits
    Everyday Wellbeing Rituals, inside page 3
    Your turn

14 guided books, one path in 4 stages

  • Healing the Mother Wound
  • Healing the Father Wound
  • Reparenting My Inner Child
  • My Inner Child & Attachment
  • Gentle with My Anxiety
  • Growing My Self-Worth
  • Untangling My Patterns
  • Back to My Roots
  • Naming My Wounds
  • 21-Day Self-Love Challenge
  • Self-Love Diary
  • Becoming the New Me
  • Dates with Myself
  • Everyday Wellbeing Rituals

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  • Bonus: Which Wound Is Mine? (quiz + map)
    Bonus 1Free

    Which Wound Is Mine? (quiz + map)

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    40 honest statements that tell you which wound runs your life and exactly which book and page to open tonight.

  • Bonus: The 30-Day Gentle Path
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    The 30-Day Gentle Path

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    Fifteen minutes a day. The exact exercise for each of the 30 days, so you never wonder where you left off.

  • Bonus: Letting Go Without Losing Myself
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    Letting Go Without Losing Myself

    $12 value · yours free

    A full 55-page book on anxious attachment: the waiting, the texts, the situationships, and how to stay yourself in love.

  • Bonus: When It Hits: 52 SOS Cards
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    When It Hits: 52 SOS Cards

    $9 value · yours free

    For the call with your mother, the text left on read, the 3 a.m. spiral. Three steps and the exact words, in 60 seconds.

  • Bonus: 5 Guided Meditations (audio)
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    5 Guided Meditations (audio)

    $19 value · yours free

    The mother you needed, the front steps, the girl you were, 3 minutes to calm, and one for sleep.

Moments this is made for

If you’ve ever typed one of these, there’s a page for it.

Illustrative examples written from the scenes inside the books. Not customer reviews.

  • The daughter

    one short call with my mom

    and I feel seven years old again for the rest of the day

    Healing the Mother Wound

    Tonight: Chapter 1, “The mother you had.” 15 minutes.

  • The eldest daughter

    I’m the one everybody calls

    nobody calls back to ask how I’m doing

    Untangling My Patterns

    Tonight: The people-pleasing chain: trigger → belief → behavior.

  • The one who waits for the text

    he left me on read

    I’ve checked my phone 40 times since 9

    My Inner Child & Attachment

    Tonight: SOS card: the text left on read. 60 seconds.

  • The one who says yes

    said yes again when I meant no

    why do I always have to earn my place

    Growing My Self-Worth

    Tonight: Answering the inner critic, in writing.

  • The one awake at 3 a.m.

    it’s 3am and my brain is replaying every conversation

    I already talked about all of this. why am I still here

    Gentle with My Anxiety

    Tonight: The worry window, then the 3-minute calm audio.

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Everything you get today

  • 14 guided books (731 pages), fillable PDF$59
  • Phone, tablet, computer or print
  • Plus 5 bonuses, free
    • Which Wound Is Mine? (quiz + map)$9
    • The 30-Day Gentle Path$9
    • Letting Go Without Losing Myself$12
    • When It Hits: 52 SOS Cards$9
    • 5 Guided Meditations (audio)$19

Total value $117

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Questions

Everything you want to know before you start.

What exactly do I get?

14 guided books (731 pages) as fillable PDFs, plus 5 bonuses: a quiz, a 30-day plan, an extra book on anxious attachment, 52 SOS cards and 5 guided audio meditations. Nothing is shipped.

Can I fill them in on my phone?

Yes. They work on any phone, tablet or computer, and you can type right into the pages. You can also print them and write by hand.

How do I get it?

You get instant access to download everything right after checkout, and a copy of the link by email.

Is this a subscription?

No. You pay once and everything is yours to keep, forever.

I’ve tried journaling before and quit. Why would this be different?

Because you never face a blank page. Every chapter tells you exactly what to write, and the 30-Day Gentle Path tells you which exercise to do each day. Fifteen minutes is enough.

How can I pay?

Card, Apple Pay, Google Pay, PayPal.

Do I have to do them in order?

No. Start with the wound that hurts most. The free quiz tells you exactly where to begin, and the 30-Day Gentle Path walks you through all four stages if you prefer an order.

Is this therapy?

No. These are guided books for self-reflection. They can work beautifully alongside therapy, but they don’t replace a licensed professional. If you’re in crisis, please call or text 988 (US).

You already know why it hurts. Tonight, you can start changing it.

One quiz, one book, fifteen minutes for you. That’s how it starts. Everything arrives the moment you order.

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